- It is an example of a metaphor, referring to the idea of a ghost (N.) being invisible and flighty. When you ghost someone, you disappear (become invisible) from their life. It can also mean to leave a party or social gathering without telling anybody or saying goodbye. An example of this would be: “Did anyone see Anna leave the party last night?” “No, man. She ghosted.” Again, this meaning is an example of a metaphorical shift. I think people use ghost because it captures the negative connotation associated with someone not replying to you or leaving without saying goodbye.
Ghost (4)
zero derivation Verb
To abruptly stop talking to someone without giving that person a reason, usually in a romantic relationship or relationship with the potential to advance into something romantic.
Etymology : Formed by connecting the perception of a ghost being invisible to someone disappearing without trace.
Source : “I have to reply with something though, I don’t want to ghost him.” (Friend, October 2017)
Last modified: 29 November 2017